I spent the first 40 years of my life being a “Nice Guy.” I was the guy who looked for approval from other people at all costs, hiding my actual wants and being afraid to show that I had my own needs. All so that I wouldn’t be a problem for other people. I gave my time, money, and gifts to others because I wanted people to see how good I was. I avoided conflict because I thought I was a bigger man. I hid all my mistakes and didn’t try new things unless I could do it correctly. I had no idea what a boundary was, and I ensured everyone around me was more important than I was.
In 2016, I was introduced to Dr. Robert Glover’s book No More Mr. Nice Guy. Reading his book was like finding an instruction manual that included how I was wired and, most importantly, how to troubleshoot and understand where I began to deviate from my outdated operating system, reboot my system, and get the life I was meant to live. I spent the next eight years in total immersion learning.
During that time, as I worked through my own recovery from Nice Guy Syndrome, I couldn’t help but notice patterns. Patterns that I used to fast-track not only my own personal recovery but also how to apply what I learned to help transform the lives of others and help them make rapid improvements during their recovery.
In 2020, I became a certified coach by Dr. Robert Glover and began coaching full-time.
I know what it is to feel broken, to lose relationships with people you care about, to have relationships that were not fulfilling, and to be the person who did not believe in himself enough to end those relationships or make his needs a priority.
My calling is to share the tools I used to transform my life into a confident, authentic person who can express himself in a healthy and assertive manner and help other men begin to live their most authentic lives as integrated men.
In 2024, Dr. Glover selected me to redesign his No More Mr. Nice Guy Coaching Certification Program. The program aims to help other aspiring Nice Guy Coaches reach their certification and begin helping men transform from Nice Guys into Integrated Men.
Are you ready to discover your authentic self and start living with passion and purpose?
